Through the past year, I have made my life my own. Gaining new perspectives has aided me in becoming a confident woman. There is nothing like the feeling of being completely alone. Not until you hit the bottom curled in an old flannel shirt can you truly begin to look at what you want in life. I know what it feels like to trip in your stilettos and face plant into a pile of hardships. But don’t get me wrong, I’ve been blessed with an amazing life where strong relationships have without a doubt picked me up.
I can honestly say that each and every relationship makes me who I am today. Whether they were healthy or unhealthy, loving or hurtful, selfish or selfless, they shape my life everyday. My style, my personality, my love life, my friendships, my everything. It’s like those fantastic 3 inch platform rocketdog shoes we all used to wear… I can’t live in regret forever. They helped me to see that some trends just are not meant to be supported by all. Just like the guy that broke your heart with his lies and awful skater shoes. The distant memory even still constantly reminds you to scan to the floor before agreeing to any date.
In all seriousness, this recollection of this guy will help in spotting and avoiding future Mr. liars. Although I feel I have been successful in distancing myself from a majority of these men, I can’t say this guy helped me to avoid:
Mr. Angry, Mr. Needy, Mr. Immature, Mr. Moody, or Mr. Justnottheone.
But, I am fully aware that these Mr.’s have led me to the notion that
I know what I want.
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